Ralph Edward Lubahn

Ralph Edward Lubahn, born Oct. 5, 1941, in Port Washington, Wis., passed away on May 10, 2026, in Grafton, Wis., at his home. He was a man marked by quiet strength and a kind heart, remembered for his dedication to family, faith and his many pursuits.

Ralph served honorably in the U.S. Army, a testament to his sense of duty and commitment.

Following his military service, he spent many years as a mechanic at American Can Co., where his skills and innovation were well regarded. In retirement, Ralph continued to stay active, delivering car parts for Newman Chevrolet, reflecting his enduring work ethic and punctual nature.

He was a devoted family man who loved deeply and quietly. His greatest pride came from taking care of his home and garden, nurturing both with the same gentle care he showed his family. His passion for gardening was well known, as was his affection for polka dancing, a joyful activity he especially enjoyed sharing with his beloved wife and granddaughters.

Ralph’s personality was marked by kindness and gentleness, and he held a profound love for his late wife Marlene (nee Raasch). Their partnership was a cornerstone of his life. He was innovative in spirit, reserved in demeanor and always faithful to keeping family traditions alive and honoring his commitments, including his dedication to his church community.

His hobbies reflected a meticulous and engaged character. He was a dedicated model railroad enthusiast, avid puzzler and bird lover. These interests provided him comfort and connection throughout his life.

Ralph is survived by his children Sherrie (Dan) Pals and Steven Lubahn and his grandchildren Larissa Meier and Kindra Meier, as well as brothers-in-law Jerry Neuwirth and Dennis (Candy) Raasch.  Ralph is further survived by nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends.

He was preceded in death by his beloved wife Marlene, his sister Joyce Neuwirth, his brother Donald Stackhouse, his parents Clarence Herman Lubahn and Mary Standafer and godson David Neuwirth. Funeral services to honor Ralph’s life will be held on Friday, May 15, 2026, at 4:30 p.m. at St. Paul Lutheran Church, 701 Washington St., Grafton. Visitation will take place on Friday from 2:30 to 4:15 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorials to St. Paul Lutheran Church, Grafton, are appreciated.  

Online condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.muellerfuneralhome.com.

Ralph Edward Lubahn’s life was a quiet testament to devotion, hard work and sincere love. His memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew him and in the gentle legacy he leaves behind.